In divorce court, dads get the shaft. In TV commercials, dads are characterized as stupid buffoons. In the movies, dads are portrayed as slime balls hungry for the woman (not their wife) with the biggest bosoms. This Father’s Day, it’s time to quit giving dads a bad rap. What dads truly want on Father’s Day (June 17) and all other days of the year is both simple and free: to be appreciated.
Listed below are 10 of the best “gifts” to give Dad that cost little or nothing. No assembly required. But first, a brief history lesson…..
Where did Father’s Day come from? Father’s Day was created in gratitude by a daughter who thought that her father and all good fathers should be honored with their own day just like we honor mothers on Mother’s Day. Born in 1882, Sonora Smart Dodd was raised by her father, William Jackson Smart, after her mother died giving birth to a sibling. In her teenage years, Sonora wanted her father to know how special he was to her, to show appreciation for all his parental sacrifices and for being such a courageous, selfless, and loving man. Sonora’s father was born in June, so she chose to hold the first Father’s Day celebration in Spokane, Washington, on June 19, 1910.
In 1926, a National Father’s Day Committee was formed in New York City. Father’s Day was recognized by a Joint Resolution of Congress in 1956. In 1972, President Richard Nixon established a permanent national observance of Father’s Day to be celebrated annually on the third Sunday of June.
Best Father’s Day Gifts For Less Than A Dime
Skip the tie. Forego the cologne and gizmos. Make it a day Dad will never forget:
- Let Dad channel surf to his heart’s content! Only he picks the TV shows. No one argues or complains.
- Give Dad 3 sincere compliments sprinkled throughout the day.
- Tell Dad 3 things you deeply appreciate that he does for you without him giving them a second thought.
- Give Dad a big Papa Bear hug. Add a family group hug with Dad sandwiched in the middle.
- What’s been on his mind lately? What’s been stressing him out? Think of ways you can help relieve the situation, accomplish the goal, or provide emotional support.
- Determine 2 topics of importance to you, and have a real conversation about them with Dad. Ask him for his words of wisdom. Listen attentively. Be respectful.
- Invite Dad to go for a walk, jog, or bike ride with you.
- If you live miles apart and can only call Dad, commit to a light-hearted phone conversation. Make him laugh. Keep it positive. No complaints or talk about personal or business problems, physical ailments, or money issues allowed.
- At the family dinner, make a special toast to Dad. Make him feel like a king by focusing the conversation on boosting his ego.
- What chores does Dad always do? Pick 2 and do them for him. Meet his standards.
Bonus: Display greater patience and tolerance for the things Dad does that annoy you.
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